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Introducing Beata: my quintessential mom

Posted on Dec 24th, 2007 by Amazume : Pure Light Combustion Amazume




Facts about my relationship with Beata:

She and I both were initially born and raised European, I in the Netherlands, she in Hungary.

When we met, it was under most unusual circumstances. A friend suggested I see her husband to invite him for a workshop on vibrational energy supplements for body and environment. I rang the bell, and my eye cought a sticker on the window next to her door that said: this property is protected by Angels. No one answered, that is physically. I did hear Angelic communication. "Take a seat. Wait five minutes". I sat by her door in a comfortable chair, across from the driveway a Buddha statue smiling at me in his usual blissful state. It was a beautiful Fall day. So I enjoyed sitting there taking in the colors and sunlight. Until I heard the next communication: "The door will be openend shortly".
Just as soon as I approached the door, I heard a woman's voice that rang like a bell: "Hello?". I chimed in reply: "Yes!" The door swung open and I stared into the most amazing eyes. They looked like they had been places! Places worthy of exploring! "Hi, I just did a meditation on the Lord of Victory", the woman said. We exchanged eachother's name and I was inivited into her most wonderous home.

Soon after that we adopted eachother. Beata felt ready to take on a daughter with a family. I felt ready to have a mom based in the US, within short driving distance! We have journeyed together and collaborated on many healing projects. Particularly the healing of ourselves, our relationships, our families, our pets, and our living environments. We continue on this path. We have short lived arguments, and lots of laughter.

Beata is now an unmarried woman and much happier for it! I was married into what eventually became a non-committal relationship with Joe, explored separation, and found it was an illusion. He and I are soulmates after all. Since we have both re-awakened to that fact, commitment came naturally (again). Happiness is on our daily path. Challenge too. This we learn to love as it brings about growth, and a willingness to keep away from that snooze button.

Beata was and still is instrumental in helping me filter out the ego based thoughts. Without her guidance, I would have been much more destructive than necessary in my relationships. We do this for eachother: ego monotoring. It is actually fun, as we do not take ourselves so seriously anymore!

The quintessential mom gives what is needed, only from the heart, nothing more, nothing less. This is who Beata is to me. And as such, our relationship is evolving beyond my dreams, mutually rewarding on many levels! If you would like to get to know her too, she is among my Zaadz friends, a/ka/ SUNSHINE. A perfect name, as we are all SUNS of God(des). You can find her here

In Loving Light,
Nell ;-)
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 Meenakshi : Connection
about 2 hours later
Meenakshi said

How interesting!

John : Listener
about 19 hours later
John said

Is Beata the person with the snake or tiger/leopard? If it is the one with the snake, we could very well have similiar facial traits.

John

Amazume : Pure Light Combustion
1 day later
Amazume said

Beata is the person with the snake. The photo with the tiger is also Beata, at another time in her life.

Nell ;-)

Amber : Smilemaker
1 day later
Amber said

How wonderful! How many years have you been Beata's adopted daughter?! The best friendships get even better with lots of time and experiences. Someone to check your ego with. Very nice. Ego is such a sneaky thing and sometimes you need someone who knows you well to recognize a swelling in your Ego department! Someone who is willing to tell you your butt is getting too big or there's something icky on the end of your nose! Those types of friendships are priceless! I'm glad you have one too, Nell!

Amazume : Pure Light Combustion
3 days later
Amazume said

Hi Amber! Thanks for your comment.  I was pregnant (and did not even know it yet) when we met. Benji is now 18 mos (just about), so that's about 2.5 years.

Ego-monotoring, as I call it, is something I also do with Joe, my kids, my sister, my mom, the women in my 2 GoddSCircles, and several friends who are open to it. The intention is always to do it with gentleness and humor. The kids are not always that subtle, but than again, they do make headway quickly in their messages. Which again reminds me to be open, and not to take myself too seriously! Yes, indeed I am blessed.

And then there are many people that cross my path, who trigger something in me that I just know I have to take a good look at.

Want to tell me about who is your Ego monitor? Sometimes one can be most effective.

Beatashi : TA
3 days later
Beatashi said

Dear Nell,
I must tell you the Picture of Mighty Victory is the SUN God on my bedroom door, which I was meditating on as you were doing sitting front of my front door, while waiting for the door to open..  Now I read here that you were also seeing this too.  We are so in oneness, it's magical.  Thank You for John he is a friend on the seeeeen.  I must read about him so I can give proper response.  Love you, Mom

Amber : Smilemaker
5 days later
Amber said

I don't think that I have one 'officially'. Maybe I do, I just haven't put any thought into it. Most of my friends are the 'pat me on the back' type and I love them! My best friend and I are NOT going to point out each other's failings EVER! Although I don't know why. I guess I just see how much pain she's in already and she probably sees the pain I'm in when I'm EGOFull so we let the elephant sit in the room and comfort ourselves with our friendship. Sounds a bit enabling, eh?

Amazume : Pure Light Combustion
6 days later
Amazume said

LOL. It all depends how you look at it, Amber. There is a place for sitting together with pain, really feeling it, without trying to fix it. If you have a friend willing to do this, that is a very valuable friendship. The poem “The Invitation” comes to mind. You can read it here.

The ego-monotoring I'm talking about is when you are someplace other than hooked into that pain point. Like when you are sitting down quietly, having a cup of whatever it is you have with your friend, and she tells you: “Hey, here's what I noticed you do, not necessarily serving the best interest of all concerned. And when she does this, there is compassion in her voice. “Can you see it?” And together we look at it, and brainstorm a new approach. To do this, there has to be a willingness to face the truth. When one points a finger at another, three are pointing back. From the chaos we create together that leads to crisis, there is most likely an opportunity to create something better. Lo and behold, it works. That pain point you used to get hooked into is overcome, goners! The melting away of ego triggers is very empowering indeed.

Amber : Smilemaker
6 days later
Amber said

My Little Friend, as I call her, is so very dear to me. We've been together thru mostly thin not too much thick. Her friendship is very valuable to me even with our 'elephants' that make the room seem a bit stuffed! It would be great to get past the pain point and get to the ego-monotoring point. Maybe this year we will try that on and see how it fits! We've been doing the same comfortable dance routine for 10 years, we might as well learn some new steps!

Thanks for the perspective on this. What a great way to grow an old friendship!

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